Sonntag, Juni 28, 2009

something I like to share with all the people reading my blog. just because.

thanks to the ones reading my blog that I did not mention in my last post.

a "scusi" to Phil from practicality blog. haven't been visiting u for ages, but I did catch up now. sorry to hear about your loss.

myself, I just lost my godfather. he had a heart attack last year, got a bypass, there were complications, he was in intense care for weeks, they had to take his leg off, he got an artificial leg and went into rehab. he was pretty happy there at first, laughing at the psychologist, having a good time. then the shock set in, about not recovering as speedy as expected, about having lost the leg, about not being able to join carneval except for a lousy afternoon in a wheelchair.

then there were complications again, and he recently died of Blutvergiftung - poisoned blood, kinda.

he was always a heavy smoker, always up for a good laugh, full of energy, passionate for BMW, and carneval in Basel were the three days a year he gave loads of energy to. the rest was diving, reading, driving, drinking, enjoying life.

the thing that troubles me is not so much that he went away now. he had a good life. his wife will manage - though in grief, she manages already now. but to know that at the hospital, they messed things up... that there are different departments treating different sicknesses, and that they neither care nor are forced to interact with each other. one doctor actually said, "we were so focused on his leg, we forgot to treat him for his heart as well".

I guess it happens. it probably happens far more often than any of us would ever want to know. that we perfect one thing, but forget about the other. it's an old wisdom, that good doctors treat their patient as one person with heart and soul, with personality and biological characteristics. we also know that in today's world, this is not the case unless you pay a fortune for your own private clinic. I know that in Western Europe we are still immensely privileged to even have doctors treating you.

just wanted to share with you. not going anywhere specific, except perhaps... hmm, getting a lesson out of the story... be there for people in need, so they will be there when you need them. eg, to speak up at the bedside and protest against a god in white who just read your patient history for the first time.

Kommentare:

Peter (Worldman): hat gesagt…

These are "heavy thoughts" and of course deep, good and important ones. You raise a lot of questions. And perhaps we will never get good answers.

Take care and I am with you in your grief.

Anonym hat gesagt…

Bella,
I am very sorry to hear that. My thoughts are with you! I send you a big hug.

Panda

J.A. hat gesagt…

Hi
Thank you for this wonderful blog. It was most informative. If its ok with you I would really like to follow your work and maybe you could have a look at my blog. Thanks Morgana.

Lars Hansen hat gesagt…

I am contacting you concerning The World Log (http://theworldlog.org), a web platform that spreads user generated content (blogs, photos, video and newsletters) related to development cooperation to larger audiences.

The Swedish International Development Co-orporation Agency (Sida) has developed the on-line platform to bring the general public closer to the realities of development work throughout the world and to involve them in the issues. The target audiences for the site are professionals, people involved in development issues and the general public. The goal of the platform is to raise awareness and generate discussion prior to, during and after the European Development Days (http://www.eudevdays.eu/) in Stockholm this October, and to engage the general public in the debate and questions of international development. The World Log is bringing the tools of the 21st century to bare on the issues to be discussed .

The World Log shows real stories and discussions from development work around the world in an easily accessible way. Entries are plotted on Google maps and marked up by topic, making your blog and others easily available to those not versed in blog search tools. The platform will be heavily promoted during the European Development Days through several official sites such as the Swedish Ministry for Foreign Affairs, the Swedish EU Presidency website and the Sida website. The goal of the platform is to drive as many people as possible to the actual blogs, such as yours, and engage them in actual development work discussions and activities from around the world.

Registration for the site is free and will take roughly 10 minutes of your time. You can attach your blog by simply copying and pasting in your RSS feed into your World Log profile. You can set up standard tags for your entries, such as the country you are working in or writing about and the issues that you regularly address such as AIDS or water. This way when someone searches for articles, blogs and discussions about, for example, water, you will be part of the results. You can also add specific tags for specific articles. For example if you regularly write about agricultural development in Rwanda but write a blog entry about women's issues in Central Africa, you can tag that specific blog entry to reflect the different topic.

The World Log is not limited to blogs alone. Newsletters, photos and videos are all supported and encouraged. All you need is the RSS feed. The platform also supports discussions and comments based on entries so that you can follow what your readers are saying. Readers who click on your entry are directed to your site so you register the hit. We have developed a widget that you can embed in your site if you wish your readers to see on-going discussions and topic on the World Log related to what you write about. And we also have badges that you can attach to your site to show your affiliation with the World Log. There are no strings attached, we do this to promote discussion and engage the public, though we encourage you to promote the site for your and others benefit.

I really hope that you will consider being a part of the discussion. You are passionate about the issues and development (which is why I am contacting you) and so are we. More detailed information about the site, including an easy to use set-up guide, can be found here (http://theworldlog.org/signup-info/). If you have any questions, please ask.

The World Log is an opportunity for you to reach new readers and have your voice heard in the build up to, during and after the European Development Days conference.

Thank you for your help and time
Lars Hansen
lars@theworldlog.org

Pablo (yo) hat gesagt…

Great blog!
If you like, come back and visit mine: http://albumdeestampillas.blogspot.com

Thanks,
Pablo from Argentina

neilhoja hat gesagt…

I'm sorry to heard that... hope you always in great life, and blessed.

Jonnha T. Cruz hat gesagt…

This is so sad. That is why trust is really difficult to give to people especially when the life of a beloved is on the line. It is very easy to admit a mistake but have they really considered the consequences. Yes they are just human and are not perfect but at least be close to perfection.

However, there might be a reason somewhere. Life will go on.

Peter (Worldman): hat gesagt…

So, really no more blogging? Sniff!!

rtfgvb7827 hat gesagt…

IS VERY GOOD..............................

Glendaajackson hat gesagt…

you have a nice site. thanks for sharing this valuable resources. keep it up. you can also earn money from here


media